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The Top Four Things to Look For in a Life Partner

There are some specific things that can make a huge difference in finding “the one”

Wendy Miller
6 min readJan 11, 2021
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Is finding the right partner a key ingredient in your recipe for a happy life? Yes, it is. While there may not be any one person who is destined to be your life partner, there are plenty of people who are destined to make you miserable.

While the search can seem elusive, it gets much easier if you learn to focus on the qualities that are fundamental to forging healthy and positive relationships: character, background, personality, and chemistry.

Without these, you’ll either end up miserable for life or bouncing from relationship to relationship. But with them? You can build something that withstands the test of time.

Character

1. Assess their availability. For a loving relationship, both parties must be available for love. If one of you is already involved with another person, you’re already off to a difficult start! Circumstances may change with time or you may need to look elsewhere. Remember that being involved with another person doesn’t have to mean dating or in a relationship. If they’re pining for someone else, waiting for someone to be single, or otherwise not completely emotionally free, they’re not…

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Wendy Miller
Wendy Miller

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