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I’m Committed, But He’s Not. What Do I Do?
When the person who wanted you so badly doesn’t seem to want to commit, should you accept that?
*Sasha has been talking to a guy, *Rob, off and on for several months. He’s been begging her to let him out of the “friend zone.” She finally did in the beginning of February. As soon as she did, he told her he didn’t want to commit because she doesn’t live in the same town.
“I live about an hour and a half away. But I go to that town anyway because it’s my hometown and my daughter’s father lives there. So I have to go there anyway. But it feels so unfair that I’m doing all the driving, and he never comes to me. And now he doesn’t want to commit? I feel like I’m putting in all the effort!” she says.
She feels like they’re already in a relationship. They kiss, hold hands, call each other pet names, and go out together when she’s in town. They’ve even shared photos of each other together on their social media, but he still won’t commit.
She was able to understand his reluctance to commit initially because of the distance. But now she’s moving back soon and he’s still refusing to commit.
“We see each other all the time but only because I make sure we do. I’m completely committed to him. I’m not sleeping with anyone…
