I do not doubt that women do this too! I absolutely think anyone is capable of the same behaviors, good or bad. But since I don’t date women, I can only speak to my experiences with men.

I just don’t understand how people can live this way. I mean, I can admit that sometimes things get a little messy or disorganized for me. A pile of laundry that doesn’t get folded right away or a stack of books that builds up beside my laptop when I’m researching something. Maybe letting the dirty dishes sit for a day or two until there’s enough to run the dishwasher. But a floor so dirty that I’m afraid being barefoot might require exotic disease vaccinations? A bathroom counter covered in hair or even just dirt? I can’t picture anyone being comfortable living that way, and yet the ones who do seem to be.