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How Parents Can Help Their Kids Have a Growth Mindset
Help your kiddo get beyond the idea that they’re stuck as they are
My 17-year-old son has gotten into spray paint art over the last year or so and he creates some really beautiful pieces. When you look at his work today, you would never know that when he was about 10, he couldn’t draw a straight line with a ruler and swore he had no artistic talent at all.
What helped him become the talented young artist he is now? A growth mindset. I didn’t let him believe that he had no artistic talent. I encouraged him to realize there were many kinds of artistic talent and he just needed to find the one he clicked with. I also encouraged him to understand that everyone is “bad” at things when they’re new to it but with practice and determination, he could improve.
I made sure that both he and his brother didn’t grow up with a fixed mindset because I knew they could do so much more in life with a growth mindset.
Fixed mindset vs. growth mindset
If you have a fixed mindset, you believe your intelligence, talents, and basic abilities are fixed. You’re born with this basic set of abilities, talents, and level of intelligence and there’s nothing you can do to change them. And this belief holds you back…
