Getting Into Your Feminine Energy for a Date
How do you shift from masculine energy to feminine for a date — and should you?
Dating is such a complicated thing for single moms. We have to find that delicate balance between finding someone we like and can envision being with and finding someone our kids like — and who likes our kids. We have limited time. We have to try to find or make some sort of peace between our ex and our new dating life — or figure out when it’s appropriate to move on after being widowed.
But there’s another harmony we have to try to find and that’s being in the right energy. As single moms, we spend a lot of time in masculine energy. Getting things done, planning, preparing, using logic and knowledge to keep things going and stay afloat.
But when we’re on a date, that might not be the best energy to be in. Because dating isn’t always about getting things done, planning, preparing, and definitely not always using logic and knowledge. Dating is about feeling, flowing, receiving, being in the moment, and seeing where things go. And that’s best accomplished when we’re in feminine energy.
Shifting back and forth between the two can be a bit of a struggle though. We spend so much time in masculine energy that making the shift can feel like something we need to…