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Are you Using the Right Criteria to Measure Your Self-Worth?

The things you think matter might not count for anything at all

Wendy Miller
5 min readJan 31, 2021
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How do you determine your self-worth? Is it how much money you have? The fact that you can fit into skinny jeans? A great job and a Mercedes? It’s an interesting question. Most of us just have a vague notion of whether or not we should love ourselves given our circumstances in life.

A good thing to consider is how you think your child should measure their self-worth. Do you think a child should love themselves more or less if they were:

● Wealthy or poor?

● More or less attractive than the average person?

● Failed more times than they were successful?

● Succeeded more times than they failed?

Would you consider any of these to be a reason for a child to love themselves more or less? What criteria would you use?

Photo by Jeremiah Lawrence on Unsplash

Things that probably shouldn’t determine your degree of self-love:

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Wendy Miller
Wendy Miller

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