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Are You Being Noisy in Someone Else’s Life?
While others are creating chaos for you, you might be someone else’s storm
Quick author’s note: For those who are very literal, this is not about sound. This is about stress, frustration and drama. No need to comment and message me about how disappointed you are that it’s not about sound.
Most of the time, we are well aware of the chaos others are causing us. We can clearly see how others are making their unwanted impact on our lives and making it really noisy. We have a pretty good idea of what they could do or should do to make our lives easier. It just seems crystal clear.
BUT…
How aware are you of the noise you may be causing someone else? Chances are, you bring a bit of chaos to people, whether you mean to or not. Your behavior may be contributing to the noise in someone else’s life. There are some ways of Being that cause others to have noisier lives than they might like. Ways like:
✔Being Needy
✔Being Demanding
✔Being Passive
✔Being Scattered
Each of these character traits can make it harder for people to be in relationship than it needs to be. Here’s why:
