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7 Phrases to Watch out for in Dating
If you hear these phrases, you might want to walk away now.
When you really like someone, it’s easy to overlook the signs that they don’t like you quite as much. But there are some signs that you really shouldn’t ignore.
You’ve always heard you shouldn’t listen to what a person says but instead watch what they do. But sometimes what they say is just as important as what they do. Sometimes what they say sounds pretty and promising when it’s really just dishonest and damaging.
Here are seven things that, if you hear them, you should walk away.
I’ve been super busy but I’ll have more time for you soon
This is a line meant to keep you dangling on a hook. It’s an easy way to explain an absence. It tends to be hard to confirm, and because it includes a promise, it distracts you from questions you might have.
Sometimes it’s a variation, such as being busy with work or busy with the kids, but it’s still just a vague promise of having more time for you. How much more time? How soon?
This one can be used over and over. It’s an especially helpful phrase when they’re wanting to come back into your life after being gone for a while. They’ll claim they’ve been busy…