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4 Steps to Getting Kids to Do Chores

Whether you’re reassigning chores after divorce or just trying to get little ones to help out, these tips can help

Wendy Miller
7 min readSep 10, 2020
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Ah, the bane of every parent’s existence: the dreaded chore chart. We create these charts, with what we deem to be a fair division of chores, and offer every reward we can think of, from stickers to cold hard cash.

And yet, the chores are still a struggle. It doesn’t seem to matter what we change or how we change it. We still hear cries of forgetfulness, unfairness, or not knowing what to do.

After a divorce, you might be tempted to cut the kids some slack. You feel guilty over shaking up their entire existence and letting them off the hook with chores seems like a good way to try to make up for that.

But it might be the worse thing you can do. A divorce may be a good time to reassess how chores are assigned and change things up, but forgoing them completely is not a good idea.

From little kids to teens, our kids are capable of doing chores. We just need to give them a little boost to make it easier.

Which is why I have these simple steps to making sure that kids of any age can do their chores without any excuses.

Plan ahead

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Wendy Miller
Wendy Miller

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