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10 Questions to Assess Your Relationship Connection
Wondering if your relationship is healthy, on life support, or somewhere in between? These questions can help you figure it out.
Everyone wants a healthy relationship but we don’t often take the pulse of our relationship to see where it’s at. We assume things are good until we see obvious signs of trouble.
It’s important to occasionally stop and assess our connection to our partner and see how things are going. It might sound complicated or difficult, but it’s really quite simple.
Try answering these 10 questions to see where your relationship stands.
Do you each respect who the other is while also setting healthy boundaries?
Do you accept your partner as they are, and do they do the same for you? Or do you try to change each other to be someone else?
Don’t confuse trying to change someone with setting healthy boundaries, either. Healthy boundaries are things like not tolerating cheating or lies, taking time to be alone and enjoy your own interests, or not allowing your partner to disrespect you.
